In a span of few days my afternoon chats with few of my friends veered to the direction of people who hail from the north-east(who are termed more often than not 'CHINKIS). I would be very wrong to say that i also refer to them as chinki's most of the times and inspite of being sorry still keep on doing that.
So you may ask whats the big deal and i agree that's hardly alarming .But what took me aback was the perception of my friends which i thought they didn't have unlike the majority of Delhites.(i strongly hope i am wrong about people's perceptions)What they said apalled me.They said because the way the girls from North-east dress up and the way they are quite open minded that implied that they dressed up like that because they were soliciting sex.An d its just there way of dressing and there openness to boys made them feel so.
I was shocked not beacuse they were my fiends but beacuse they were judging someone by their appearances and put a tag on them which is completely unjustified to any girl let alone those hailing from the nort-east of our country.I guess people can't digest the fact that these people have their own unique identities and carry of what they wear which we can't dream of wearing.I could feel its poor jealousness on our part which leads to degrading the people from north-east.And i blame the ignorance about there cultures back home which makes us so vicious in our observations.In the nort eastern parts of our country there is hardly any discrimination betweena boy and a girl and infact in some areas its the woman of the house who earn the bread and butter while men sit at home and do household chores.
Suc is the level of freedom and so broad are there thought which we narrow minded people can't understand and brand dem as sluts just because the way they dress.
Its a very humble request to all my friends please dont ostracise them or give them so shamful tags .They are same us as .If we continue doing so can we blame that they stay in their own closely knit communities and hardly venture out?Can you venture out if people around you are so vicious in their thoughts?
please guys open up your minds and think ..........
So you may ask whats the big deal and i agree that's hardly alarming .But what took me aback was the perception of my friends which i thought they didn't have unlike the majority of Delhites.(i strongly hope i am wrong about people's perceptions)What they said apalled me.They said because the way the girls from North-east dress up and the way they are quite open minded that implied that they dressed up like that because they were soliciting sex.An d its just there way of dressing and there openness to boys made them feel so.
I was shocked not beacuse they were my fiends but beacuse they were judging someone by their appearances and put a tag on them which is completely unjustified to any girl let alone those hailing from the nort-east of our country.I guess people can't digest the fact that these people have their own unique identities and carry of what they wear which we can't dream of wearing.I could feel its poor jealousness on our part which leads to degrading the people from north-east.And i blame the ignorance about there cultures back home which makes us so vicious in our observations.In the nort eastern parts of our country there is hardly any discrimination betweena boy and a girl and infact in some areas its the woman of the house who earn the bread and butter while men sit at home and do household chores.
Suc is the level of freedom and so broad are there thought which we narrow minded people can't understand and brand dem as sluts just because the way they dress.
Its a very humble request to all my friends please dont ostracise them or give them so shamful tags .They are same us as .If we continue doing so can we blame that they stay in their own closely knit communities and hardly venture out?Can you venture out if people around you are so vicious in their thoughts?
please guys open up your minds and think ..........
1 comment:
I agree with u ary , and it hurts more , when people blame dressing style of north-east girls for dhaulakuan rape case ..which was completely nonsense ..we narrow minded people should change our perception ..i hope ,this post will do some wonder for all of us ..keep updating this blog ..
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